Sad times mixed with good news

Well I found out over the weekend, Halloween day to be exact, that my granny Bee is going to die. She has cancer. Alot of cancer. She has it in her stomach, her liver, her pancreas, and its still spreading. So with so much of it theres no way the doctors could do surgery to get it, they would probably misss some and then theres the very high chance that because of her age she wouldnt make it thru surgery anyway. So the doc gave her 6 months to a year, and hopefully she wont have to be in pain.

And the good news in all of this. I wont have to be stressed out about where we live anymore. We are moving. I am so happy because I didnt want my baby to be here. (Theres drug activity around us, I just know it and I dont trust anyone in the neighborhood.) So its better for my sanity and my little one if we move, and praise the Lord to the highest he made it happen!!

I hope Alex takes after daddy, and baby shower update

If he does then he will be one happy and very funny baby!

My Baby Daddy quote of the day is:

"Just check the DNA sample I left on there!"

HAHA

Now back story on why he said this

I have an Avon party the I RSVP to about a month ago. Its from 7:00-9:00pm tonight. We are going out of town tomorrow night and we need to borrow his dads SUV because my sister Nay and Mama D are coming with us. I know doesnt sound very romantic, "hey baby you like that?" "Shh my sister will hear you!" HAHA But sadly no thats not why we are going out of town. We are going to Cincinnati, OH to Kings Island there for fright fest, Halloween Haunt, what the hell ever it is called. My other sister Em and Captain America plus Hay-Bug and Capt Jr. are coming too! Yeah I know a nice family outing. But Em doesnt ride rides and since Im handicapped from riding anything I get to spend some good quality time with my oldest sister and Mama D! Which makes me very very happy.

Anyways back to the main story(thank you ADD for getting me off track) Im supposed to go and see the Future-Father-In-Law and the Future-Mother-In-Law plus sisters in laws. FMIL wants to see my belly since it will be her and FFIL first grandbaby, let alone grandson! I tell WH I already have plans, to which this conversation comes

WH: Your going with me to pick up the SUV
Me: I have plans baby
WH: Dont make me pull rank, Im the baby daddy and I need you.
Me: *fit of giggles* your going to pull rank *another fit of giggles* and why do I have to go, its just picking up the SUV.
WH: Yeah but they want to see you, and yea Ill pull rank Im more important. Plus you can explain the ultrasound picks better than I can. Besides the "see the arrow, the arrow is pointing at his pecker"
Me: Well what time does dad get off work. *holding back laughter*
WH: between 7 and 8
Me: The party starts at 7. But I guess when we leave there you can take me
WH: that means I need to put the gas in it, and that takes gas
Me: She lives 5 seconds from our house.
WH: Still takes like a quarter in gas
Me: Ill give you the dang quarter
WH: from where, the change thing... most of those are mine
Me: I put money in there too ya know
WH: Yeah but most of them are mine, so you will probably pull one of my quarters out
Me: How would you know, do you have them labeled?
WH: Yep, Just check the DNA sample Ive left on there. *starts to laugh*
Me: I love you!


Now on for baby shower news, I have all the big stuff taken care of!!
WOOHOO
The joys of having 3 older sisters who are all excited that Im having a baby, and are so willing to help me and WH out. The high chair, the bassinet, the baby seat, the stroller, the crib, the swing, etc. its all taken care of. Im so excited!

Oh and his name is Christopher Alexander Edward

I so love the smell of Holidays in the air

Here we are getting ready to hit "The Holiday Season" head on. Halloween is just 16 days away, and just in case you are wondering Im thinking about being a pregnant Padmé ya know from Star Wars.. and WH wants to my either an evil Anikin or Darth Vader. He hasnt decided yet.

And no Im usually not this dorky, but God love my hunny he has rubbed off one me!

Then theres Thanksgiving which is 6 weeks away, and one of my favorites by the way! Who can not love a holiday that encourages you to over eat, and then eat some more! YUM Daddy Randy makes the best fried turkey anywhere. Plus on the up side, I can eat all I want and more and not look like a fat ass because Im expecting. HAHA Yay me! And I have so much to be thankful for this year. My wonderful baby daddy. My wonderful son. My wonderful family who has been there for me no matter what through out my life. I love them so much and I dont know what Id do without them

Then theres Christmas.

I love Jesus. I love him with everything in me. But excuse the heck out of me if Im the only person on the planet that doesn't enjoy Christmas. I love the celebrating of Christ birth. I love that aspect of it. But dear lord please forgive me if I do get a little tried of all those corny Christmas songs, and decorations that people start playing in Oct, and sometimes put up then too. If you are one of them... Im sorry if this offends you but YOU DRIVE ME NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love the Christmas trees all decorated beautifully. But not before Thanksgiving! Thats my one rule!

Ill post again later with my "Thankful List" But right now Im starving, and the babys really want BLTS!

Im seeing blue ....

ITS A BOY

ITS A BOY

ITS A BOY!!!

I almost cried and I did let a out a nice woohoo when the lady showed me his lovely penis! But me being me had to see it again when the doc came in. And my stubborn baby decided that I had already seen it enough and wasnt going to cooperate. He already has his mama and daddys attitude toward things.

So here are some pics of the baby, sorry they are crappy, I dont have a scanner.

So call me a copycat

I have seen these and seen these, and never really wanted to keep full 100% track of all of these things, until now. Now when Im half way there and relize in just a few short months the baby will be here. So here it goes

How far along? 19 weeks and 6 days
Total weight gain/loss: believe it or not, just 6 lbs
Maternity clothes? yes
Sleep: almost non existant... cant get comfortable
Best moment this week: finding out Im haveing a lovely baby boy!!
Movement: yep :)
Gender: boy!
Labor Signs: No!
Belly Button in or out? In.
What I miss: feeling well. and not wanting to eat everything in sight
What I am looking forward to: buying blue!!
Weekly Wisdom: Wanting to punch the Ultrasound tech in the face because shes being super rude is normal Im sure. And it does pass as soon as the doctor comes in!
Milestones: Finding out its a beautiful bounceing boy!

YaY for being one of the special cases!

Im 16 weeks and 1 day today. Since I was about 10 weeks maybe 9 weeks, I have been having ALOT of lower back pain, and even some sciatic nerve pain. I know, I know.. Im to early for this.. so says my ENTIRE FAMILY! I talk to the OB doc and he tells me that if it keeps up Im going to have to go to physical therapy. Next visit comes up, and I tell them the pain is still her and getting a little worse. So Now I got to Physical therapy 3 days a week!!

My first visit the doc sits a heating pad on my back for about 30 mins. Then I got to lay on my side and get a wonderful back rub plus a few mins to stretch my hips out just alittle.

My second visit. Different doc but this one was way nicer. Same thing as before, kinda. I got the heating pad, and the back rub. But as he was stretching me out he felt a knot in the lower back, two of them actually, and proceeds to tell me that they are indeed knotted muscles and he will try to help work them out while I was there, but cant do it all at once cause Id be in so serious pain. Oh and that Im falling apart with all my joints cracking and popping as he moved me around.

My third day was much like the day before. Heating pad, rub down, laughing at how many times my joints crack, etc. My joints are already really limber, actually my physical therapist said today "yeah I can manipulate all of these joints and I shouldn't be able to do that yet. Its to early in your pregnancy!"

Yay me. NOT!

Then to top it off as he was stretching me out my hip did what I used to think was normal, and pop seemingly out of place and the doc felt it. And confirmed that it is indeed trying to pop out! He told me I was going to be a complicated case, but at least Im not annoying like some are. LMAO! Im glad Im not annoying to you to doc!

Oh and I think I felt the baby move for the first time today. Like actual movement. It felt like a flutter in my lower abdomen. But then again it could have been gas?! I really dont know yet.

I can tell September is coming!

My allergies are kicking my ass! And if they were kicking it any harder Id have to file assault charges against them! Oh My God! First I wake up with a little bit of a sore throat. No biggie! Then here comes the sinus drainage, yet again no biggie. But with in the last hour I have had a sinus headache with sinus pressure to boot that makes me feel like Ive shoved something up my nose! So right now I'm trying to find out what I can and cant not take for my allergies. I had a huge print out of the most common symptoms and the things you can take, but I have sadly filed it away with other baby stuff(my moms obsessed with scrapbooks)!

Some Randomness as usual!

Me and KAM went to Wal.mart with her mama and little sister yesterday. While her mom and little sister were shopping we went to look at some baby stuff and some things for her wedding. I found the cutest little jumper for a boy, it says "daddy's little handyman" across the front, and it looks like it has a little tool belt across the belly! Too Cute! Oh and for a girl I found the cutest little shoes for her and some Little Mermaid PJs! Too cute!!

I cant wait for October to get here, I really want to know what it is already!